Books that inspire
Books that Inspire Me: #7 Driving Fear Out of the Workplace
September 29, 2021
Books that inspire
Books that Inspire Me: #9 Positivity
October 9, 2021

This is the eighth in a series of posts in which I share thoughts on a book that has inspired me over the years. 

In his book Worry (which I will include in a future edition of Books that Inspire Me), Dr. Edward Hallowell wrote that the greatest learning disability of all is not a fancy medical condition like dyslexia or ADD. It is simple fear. Fear of asking questions makes one stupid because they do not hear answers. Fear of trying makes on stupid because they do not learn from experience.

Even worse, as Bayles & Orland show in this book, fear can prevent you from being authentic. 
Excessive worry about what other people think of you (OPO – other people’s opinions) prevents you from doing the work that makes you authentic, that allows you to be the person you were meant to be by doing your own work.

Giving in to your own negative self-talk and self-confining beliefs prevents you from doing your best because you doubt your own abilities and you doubt whether you even deserve to enjoy the rewards of having done your best work.

In their book, Bayles & Orland describe an experiment in which art students were divided into two groups. The first group was told to make as many pots as they possibly could during the allotted time. The second group was told to make the very best pots they could during the allotted time.
In every case, the group that had been told to make the most pots also made the best pots. Moving quickly and without expectation of perfection freed them from inhibition. They were able to experiment and learn from experience.

In my presentation on Becoming the Lion in Your Mirror, I ask this question: What would you do if every job paid the same and had the same social status? 

What would you do if you stopped listening to the malignant echo of negative self-talk that prevents you from moving out of your comfort zone and take the risks you need to be your authentic best self and achieve your most meaningful goals? If you stopped worrying about what other people might think of you and instead cared only about what you think of yourself?

Action is the hacksaw that cuts through the prison bars of fear. So go ahead. Start making pots. Concentrate on making the most pots and you will eventually find that you are making the best pots.
Do your best work. Do your own work.

How Are You and Your Colleagues Holding Up? Please complete this 2-minute survey
We are in the process of pivoting The Pickle Challenge for Charity to raise money (hopefully a lot of money) and awareness to support the mental health and emotional wellbeing of the world’s caregivers who have borne the brunt of this pandemic, now in its fourth surge. You can help us direct that funding by taking 2 minutes and responding to this survey:

How Are You Holding Up Survey


Everyday Courage

Courage, Perseverance, Resilience, Hop

Everyday Courage for Extraordinary Times features 21 short videos, 12 eBooks, Leader’s Guide and Participant Study Guide. The course is incredibly affordable, easy to implement, tailored to your organization, and absolutely guaranteed to be effective. 
Learn more by visiting the Values Coach website, emailing me, or by calling our office at 319-624-3889.

FIND OUT HOW